Chistian mom tells gay man his lifestyle

How should Christian parents

Secondassure him of your unchanged love in both word and deed. Rachel Held Evans concludes her blog post If my son or daughter were gay with this paragraph:. Tell him that you will continue to seek his very best, as you have always done.

Fourthwhen you do start speaking on a deeper level, begin by sharing with him how you also are broken in your own sexuality. Having our sins forgiven and our consciences cleansed of guilt is THE most powerful force in the world for battling temptation.

May I be part of creating a world in which I will not have to protect her from the bullies. How can Christian parents show love towards a homosexual son or daughter?. Is it somehow inconceivable that there are some in our churches who have struggled with homosexual desire and have fallen into sin in this area?

If our message is only guilt, without a hint of grace, then yes, we may well be causing little ones to stumble into depression, despair, and even suicide. A Christian mother concerned about her child’s school incorporating LGBTQ lessons into its curriculum faced intense backlash this week when she told a gay man on live television his lifestyle is “a choice.” Izzy Montague of South London appeared on ITV’s “Good Morning Britain” Thursday, when she debated the topic with gay father and blogger Tom Cox.

The two held the discussion. Second, Rachel seems to identify everyone who takes the view that homosexual desires are part of broken human sinfulness, and that homosexual actions are sin, as bullies. What hope do we offer them? Are there bullies who hold these views?

EighthI would ask him to keep coming to church, especially as homosexuality is sometimes the result of worshipping self rather than God Romans Like Rachel, I too have winced and cringed as preachers have condemned homosexuality as if it is an unforgiveable abomination that only weird and wicked people outside of church struggled with.

Gay father Tom Cox, appeared alongside her on Good Morning Britain and insisted that. Some other important questions can be found here. A Christian mother was today branded 'homophobic' after claiming live on TV that being gay is a choice and nobody is born homosexual.

Put your arms around him, hug him tightly. If God blesses Dan and me with a child who is gay, I would want that child to know without a doubt that he or she is loved unconditionally. Sixthif your son agrees that homosexuality is sinful, and he wants to have victory over these temptations, then there are many Gospel promises you can encourage him with.

Some questions might be:. Yes, sadly, of course there are. Without it, there can be no lasting victory. Izzy Montague, of Croydon, South London, claimed that her beliefs prevented her from having a gay relationship. ThirdSTOP.

After I Came Out

Tell him that you understand how this is one of the hardest things for a young person ever to admit to; that you realize it has probably been preceded by months, maybe years, of struggle, pain, and fear. How should Christian parents respond if one of their children comes out as gay?

You need time to process this and he needs time to recover from the trauma of telling you. Promise him that you will not disown him, reject him, throw him out, or cut him off. I would want her to know nothing could separate her from the love of God in Christ.

Emphasize that you have had your own struggles with sex and many failings, but that you also take your sexual brokenness to a forgiving God who cleanses from sin, sometimes take away the temptation, and other times gives the grace to resist the urgings 1 Cor.

Fifthbegin to ask some questions. A Christian mom told a gay man that she believes homosexuality is a choice, and social media users roasted her for her stance.